How to have a good day
I'm a big believer in a morning routine. But just as important I've realised is how we finish the day. Ending your day on an intentional good note will ensure that you look back on it with a sense of fulfilment.
How to avoid communication breakdowns
Communication breakdowns happen. This model from Dr Faith Harper is a nice framework for understanding how and ways to avoid this.
Elephants, Dead Fish, Vomit
Elephants, dead fish and vomit are how Airbnb frame issues that need to be aired in their company. I like this as a framework to think about things we need to have honest, brave conversations about.
Priorities
What’s really important in your life right now? What truly matters to you? What’s your biggest priority in and out of work?
Focus on what you can influence
The Circle of Control and Influence is a neat framework popularised in the 80s by Stephen Covey. It invites you to think about the challenges and concerns you have in your work and life. And choose where best to put your time and energy.
How to have a good day
How to work with your brain to help you have a good day. And why having better boundaries and more breaks will benefit your work.
The voice inside your head
We all have an inner critic: the harsh internal voice which judges, criticises and demeans us. Having one is normal and just knowing this can help and be the very first step to taming it.
Anxiety: name it, tame it, aim it
Name it, tame it, aim it. A deceptively simple framework to help manage moments of anxiety explained. Don’t be fooled - it is backed up by sound psychology and neuroscience. Keep this one in your back pocket for moments of difficult emotion.
Rethinking imposter syndrome
If you are new to something maybe it’s time to embrace imposter syndrome as a sign that you are right where you need to be - outside your comfort zone.
Time management - the uncomfortable truth
The uncomfortable truth about time management, is that life is finite. Time management at a deeper level is accepting this: we can only do a fraction of what we want to do.
Stuck? You only have 3 options
In any stuck situation there are only 3 options to exert some influence and get back in the driver's seat. Change the situation. Change yourself. Or walk away.
Love yourself: thought for Valentine’s
The most important relationship you have in life – as the truism goes - is the one you have with yourself. Loving yourself isn’t narcissism or arrogance. Self-love is about taking responsibility for your own mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. Here’s some questions to ask to check your relationship with yourself…
Learning to Let Go (For Hospo)
What winds you up at work? How much low-level irritation, annoyance and frustration do you carry around on a day-to-day basis and what impact is it having on you?
On being brave - cold water swims
Perhaps the best way to think of bravery is to treat it as a muscle. Some people are born stronger than others, but we can all improve our strength through training and practice.
Sorry not sorry
There is nothing wrong with saying sorry when you have done something wrong. But over-apologising for things that are not within your control can have real impact on your confidence - both in terms of how you feel and how others perceive you.
Making your voice heard
Making your voice heard is not easy for everyone. I recently ran a workshop for jobseekers on impact and how to use verbal and non-verbal cues to convey confidence. Here are a few quick wins from the session.
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